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Even when close by, it's invisible - if you don't know the reality, you'll just label it and move on.

"I realize that I tend to create barriers thinking they might look intimidating or that we might not be able to communicate."
"I was taught from a young age not to speak loudly in public places or on trains, and to take my trash home with me. I hope that such cultural values are cherished."
I want to participate in opportunities to interact with foreigners, and I would like to help if there's anything I can do. It's not easy to just strike up a conversation when passing by on the street... How can we connect?

Most of the Japanese people used to think the same way when they had no real interactions with foreign residents.
Every time we hear about immigration issues in America and Europe in the news, we wonder if Japan is okay with the increasing number of foreigners. However, it seems that without foreign workers, the economy and society wouldn't be sustainable at all. It's a rather complicated feeling...

However, on the other hand, foreign residents living in Japan face various difficulties and challenges in their daily lives, often stumbling through their everyday routines.
"It was difficult to find a hospital that would accept my delivery."
"I want to enroll in kindergarten, but I've been rejected by five places."
Being rejected for rental applications dozens of times just because of my foreign nationality.
"I cannot understand the contents of the letter from the government. And the procedures are not progressing."
I want to learn about Japanese customs and culture, but I don't have a reliable Japanese person to consult with.
"It's very restrictive since I only know people from the company. I want to connect with Japanese people outside of work."
"I can't make Japanese friends"

Currently, the number of foreign residents living in Japan is increasing significantly. However, foreign residents and Japanese residents are separated by an invisible wall, leading to misunderstandings and distrust as their feelings and situations remain uncommunicated.
If this continues, it might threaten to fracture the harmony of society.

What Individuals Can Do - Building Relationships Through Dialogue

Japan has one of the strictest immigration control systems in the world, but with the recent announcement to accept foreign workers, a significant "immigration era" has begun. However, despite using the same term 'immigrant,' the situation in Japan is vastly different from that of the United States, which accepts around 2 million undocumented immigrants annually who cross the border on foot, or Europe, which welcomes 3 to 4 million immigrants each year even in peacetime. As seen over 120 years ago during the "Controversy over Mixed Settlement in the Mainland," Japan does not have a rich history of living alongside foreign residents. How to coexist with foreign residents presents a new challenge and is an essential issue that cannot be avoided.
To address the challenges of globalization and an aging society with a declining birthrate, a diverse and inclusive society is preferable. Isn't it necessary to have real experiences that go beyond just "understanding intellectually" and engage our emotions and senses?

Research data shows that many Japanese people are unaware of the living conditions of foreign residents, and nearly half have no contact with foreigners at all. We need to create various opportunities to go beyond superficial international understanding, deepen mutual understanding between individuals, and foster relationships that allow for dialogue.

What OFP has been practicing - Everyday interactions that provide support

Support and expertise for foreign residents with specific backgrounds have been provided by government and specialized agencies. However, for the majority of foreign residents who have limited experience living in Japan, daily life challenges arise in a context where both the language and social customs are different, and there is no one to consult. They must figure out everything on their own regarding what can or cannot be done, which requires an enormous amount of time and effort to tackel each daily struggles.


To address this significant gap, JII launched the "Otonari-san Family Friend Program (OFP)" for the first time in Japan four years ago. As Japan's first initiative of its kind, it is an activity led by Japanese residents aimed at resolving the difficulties and isolation faced by foreign residents, fostering acceptance within the community, and creating a society where everyone can live comfortably together. Through OFP, people are connected and mutually recognized as members of a shared society.

As a grassroots approach, OFP has welcomed over 1,400 Japanese volunteers and foreign participants in total, and by carefully conducting pairing-up aimed at building stable relationships, it has achieved a pairing-up success rate and a six-month activity completion rate both around the 90% range.
After a six-month activity period, it is very common to become true friends and maintain a long-lasting relationship.

What we value is not a one-sided relationship of support, but rather the establishment of an equal relationship between Japanese residents and foreign residents. Through this, we provide personalized support and deepen mutual understanding and trust through dialogue. This approach has resonated with many people and has been expanding.

The activities of OFP are not just about supporting foreign residents. They aim to create strong connections among residents of the same community, fostering enjoyable relationships that lead to personal learning experiences and encounters with new worlds, while also planting the seeds of friendship within society.

Support us in our new challenges – an investment that offers more than just financial returns.

For the past four years, we have been involved in supporting the lives of many foreign residents, including families with children, company employees, pregnant women, international students, ALTs, and refugees or displaced persons.
Through this, we have built expertise in pairing-up and gained experience in providing appropriate support to more people through refugee assistance.
We are now fully leveraging these experiences and have started working towards building a new project platform called the "Help Desk (Spot Otonari-san) (tentative)". This system will provide quick and flexible support for the short-term issues faced by foreign residents.

What is Spot Otonari-san?This is an activity where Otonari-san can provide spot support for foreign residents' issues in the fields of welfare, childcare and education, medical care, and essential living services. In fact, this activity has been practiced extensively in support for refugees and displaced persons, and we plan to expand it to those without refugee or displaced person backgrounds in the future.

Now, IT engineers specializing in AI research have joined the development team, bringing this groundbreaking system within reach.
Building a platform requires initial investment and ongoing operational funds.
OFP has relied on funding from private grant organizations for its highly public-oriented non-profit activities. Even though we are applying for funding., the current new project is at risk of not being accepted due to the nature of grants focusing on proven results.
In addition to regular operational activities, an initial development cost of 2 million yen is required for starting the platform, including server expenses and other minimal additional funding.

The goal of this initiative is not just to support foreign residents. It is about each of us supporting one another, learning together, and understanding each other to create a society where everyone can thrive. When you invest in ventures or stocks, you receive returns in the form of money. However, in the case of highly public-oriented activities like OFP, the returns are not measured in monetary terms but rather in the creation of new systems that change how people live, providing individuals with new experiences, and fostering the societal changes we desire, leading to a "better society".

Everyone goes through moments when they need support. We believe that instead of making support the end goal, it is the connection between people that leads to greater strength, joy, and opens up possibilities.

Kindly offer your support for this new challenge.
Would you be interested in supporting OFP's activities and becoming a partner in building a "society of coexistence" together?
We also welcome your support messages and feedback!
Please share this activity with your friends and family to help expand the network of support.


Let's take small steps together.
We believe that this step will become a powerful force to change the future.

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Thoughts on Cultural Coexistence

Share Your Thoughts, & Supportive Messages
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Thank you for your support!
December 8, 2025

Many foreigners live in Japan, and there isn't a day when you don't see foreign people on the way to work or in stores. I often wonder, "Where are they from?" or "What kind of life do they lead?" This curiosity about different cultures is stirred, but in my daily life, I rarely have the opportunity to actually talk or interact with them. It takes courage to start a conversation, and without a chance, we just pass by each other. In such times, the Otonari-san Project is a great help. It begins with small encounters between individuals, and under reliable support, communication develops, eventually creating mutual understanding that transcends race and language. I believe it is a wonderful project. I sincerely support the hope that the connections born here will grow significantly.

Theater Unit Sin Titulo Representative, Sumiko Tamuro

December 1, 2025

When I myself lived abroad, the local people treated me very well. The "Otonari-san" program, which connects people from overseas who wish to come with Japanese people, is a wonderful initiative that didn’t really exist before. I am confident that it will bring about many more instances of "I'm glad I came to Japan" and "I'm glad you came to Japan." I fully support it!!

"Making working in Japan enjoyable and creating a new Japan: A gathering of the multicultural co-creation network" Organizer: Kei Suzuki

November 18, 2025

In an era where "1 in 20 Tokyo residents is a foreigner," many "foreigners" also live in our local communities. However, how often do "foreigners" and "Japanese" have opportunities to get to know each other as individuals in their daily lives? To realize a community of coexistence, it is essential to meet people with diverse backgrounds within the community, deepen mutual understanding, and nurture relationships. For that, it becomes increasingly important for each of us to take an interest, participate, and take action. JII’s projects, including the Otonari-san Family Friend Program, embody citizen participation and equality based on the lived experiences of "foreign residents," making them pioneering and urgently needed initiatives. Please continue to expand these activities to reach even more people. We support you.

Tokyo Volunteer & Civic Activity Center Reiko Mori

November 14, 2025

The Otonari-san Project is truly a grounded and warm initiative aimed at creating a symbiotic society. By supporting those who have just arrived from abroad from the perspective of fellow residents, it provides an immense sense of security to newcomers and offers Japanese people the opportunity to connect with their new neighbors in the community right from the start. We sincerely ask for your warm cooperation so that this important project can continue to expand.

Tomomi Tsubonoya, Vice Chairperson / Executive Director, NPO Mother’s Tree Japan

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Column

1. Even Without Malice

"I heard that kid speaks harshly."

My daughter said this about a foreign classmate. She added, "She says rude stuff, so the other kids don't like her. She doesn't have any friends."

After thinking for a moment, I asked my daughter.

"If you use incorrect Japanese or a bit rough language, your mom or dad will tell you, 'It's better not to say it that way.' But what if that child's mom or dad doesn't know Japanese? They might not even realize how that child is speaking. That child might not have any chance to correct themselves at all."

In that moment, my daughter's face lit up with realization, and she quietly nodded saying "Oh...yeah."

This exchange between a parent and children may seem like just ordinary conversation at home. However, we believe this is a challenge that resonates throughout our society. People often hastily conclude, "That's why foreigners..." after observing a certain behavior superficially , without trying to understand the person's background or reasoning. We feel that this tendency is a widespread phenomenon across Japan.

The truth is, behind many instances of “not being able to do something” lies the reality of “not having the chance to learn.” Without knowledge, someone doesn’t even have the opportunity to improve. At the same time, many Japanese people who wish foreign residents would better understand Japanese culture and customs rarely have opportunities to convey these things.

Why don’t these opportunities for mutual understanding exist? That’s because we haven’t built relationships where dialogue can happen.

Through our activities with the OFP program, we’ve realized that many of the difficulties foreign residents face living in Japan, as well as the anxieties and misunderstandings Japanese people feel toward foreigners, stem from a lack of understanding. Bridging these gaps in knowledge requires more than language skills or support—it requires building “dialogue-based relationships.”

The newly launched platform aims to expand "dialouge-based relationships" by going beyond solving everyday challenges through support.

We are confident that this platform as a first of its kind in Japan will bring a new form of mutual support to society . We will transform the divisions that arise from mutual "ignorance" into a future where we know, understand, and live together. We aim to fill the gaps in society that cannot be covered by government or business with the collective efforts of everyone. As a "investment in the future" towards the realization of a truly symbiotic society that only JII can achieve, we would greatly appreciate your consideration of making a donation.

Please help us in making this dream a reality.

[2] What can be achieved with the Spot Otonari-san platform?

This time, we would like to share more specifically what can be achieved with the newly established "Spot Otonari-san Platform," which focuses on solving the everyday challenges faced by foreign residents, and how it differs from the Otonari-san Family Friend Program (OFP).

These are the voices of foreign residents living in Japan.

"I received a notice about my child's vaccinations from the city office, but I didn't know that I could choose a clinic and make the appointment myself. A Japanese friend taught me how to do it, and I was able to successfully make the appointment."

The procedures at the government office are complicated, and most of the documents and processes are in Japanese. Having a Japanese friend accompany me was incredibly reassuring, and everything went smoothly. It would have been difficult to manage alone.

Thanks to my Japanese friend who inquired at the city office about the application for my child's enrollment in preschool, I was able to confirm the complex requirements and successfully enroll.

"In my country, when visiting a clinic, I first go to the general medicine department, and based on my symptoms, I am directed to the appropriate specialty. In Japan, I have to decide which department to go to myself, and when my child showed symptoms of atopy, I couldn't determine whether to go to pediatrics or dermatology. However, a Japanese friend helped me a lot by explaining that if it's clearly a skin condition, I should go to dermatology."

"When my son, who couldn't speak Japanese, was 11 years old, our family moved to Japan. Since both my partner and I were working, we struggled to find a place for our child. We were informed about after-school programs, but he didn't meet the age requirements to enroll. A Japanese acquaintance introduced us to another group where we could leave our child. There, my son made friends and was able to enjoy life. If we hadn't found that, I believe both the child and the parents would have felt much more stressed."

What may seem like ordinary daily matters to Japanese people can be challenging for foreign residents due to differences in language and social systems. Thanks to the connections with those who offered help, my stagnant daily life has started to move forward.

Utilizing the Wisdom of Local Residents is a Feature of JII
In Japan's foreigner support policies, there is a tendency for government and experts to try to provide special services for foreigners. While multilingual support, opportunities for learning Japanese, and assistance for those in need are all important, there is a significant blind spot in these efforts.

When foreign residents face difficulties, they typically consult family first, followed by Japanese friends and acquaintances, and then foreign friends and acquaintances, which together account for 70-80% of their sources of support. For those without family, friends and acquaintances become the primary source of advice. Consultion with organizations, government agencies, or private groups comes later (R5 Immigration Bureau Survey).

In the society where we are born and raised, everyone lives supported by a network of family, friends, and acquaintances. However, for foreign residents living away from their familiar networks, what is lacks most is the connection with people and the real experiences and information about that society.

Most of the everyday challenges faced by foreigners are not areas that require professional expertise. What might seem routine for Japanese people can be significant hurdles for foreigners, each one presenting its own set of difficulties. Instead of being resolved, these issues often become more complex, leading to an increase in problems. As a result, more and more foreigners find themselves feeling "stuck" and "isolated," unable to ask anyone for help.

Such situations can be improved with connections to Japanese individuals who have extensive experience living in Japan.

We believe that foreign residents should not be confined to a world of only foreigners. If only the government and specialized support organizations serve as a safety net, foreign residents will remain difficult to integrate into Japanese society. By building connections within the general community and receiving help, they can gain a sense of security and develop the skills to solve problems on their own. When Japanese people assist foreigners with their challenges, it fosters direct engagement, personal bonds, and the joy of discovering new things for both parties.
Do you not think that engaging as individuals and deepening mutual understanding is the true form of Cultural synergy and a powerful driving force for creating a rich, harmonious society?

Shall we create a future of coexistence together?
Through four years of OFP activities, we have realized that there are many Japanese people who want to support foreigners.

With that support, we have gained experience in solving the challenges faced by foreign residents and providing assistance to refugees.
This platform is designed to further expand the circle of mutual support that has been limited until now.
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[A Project Specializing in Solving the Everyday Problems of Foreign Residents: "Spot Otonari-san Platform"]
〜Those who can, offering as much help as they can, whenever they can.〜 *You can also understand the differences with OFP.

・A system that connects foreigners in need of assistance with Japanese individuals who can provide help on a one-time basis.
・There is no fixed duration of six months
A new way for foreign residents to find trustworthy people to help solve their problems.
・Clear tasks to assist (limited to welfare, childcare and education, healthcare, and living infrastructure)
・Foreigners will be able to resolve everyday problems more quickly than before.
Through concrete support experiences, Japanese people gain an understanding of the challenges faced by foreign residents and develop a more multifaceted perspective on society.
・If both parties are compatible, you can apply for an OFP pair.
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I believe this new initiative will be a significant step toward creating a society where we can all live with peace of mind.

Regarding the use of your donation,
- 500,000: You can start receiving support for short-term problem-solving by applying through the website.
- 1 million: By applying through the website, we can support 170 individuals annually with short-term problem-solving assistance.
・1.5 million: This covers the costs for programming design of the IT platform and server setup.
・2 million: Complete the IT platform and provide support for 300 people within a year.

By having capable individuals provide a little assistance when they can, many issues can actually be resolved. The more opportunities there are to deepen mutual understanding between Japanese and foreign residents, the more a society where everyone can live comfortably, rather than one filled with conflict and misunderstanding, will be formed.

We would be very encouraged if you could support our ideas as well.

Support starting from the cost of a single lunch is also possible.
We sincerely appreciate your support.

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