日本語
English
नेपाली
*This article is an excerpt and edited version of the "Parenting and Discipline with Young Children" seminar and consultation held in 2018.
*Available in English and Chinese versions
Q. Calling others 'Mom' (18 months)
Recently, I've been able to clearly say "Mom,"especially when I want something or need her to do something for me.
I often call others 'Mom,' and I'm unsure whether I should point this out or if it's okay as it is.
A.
At 18 months old, children still can't say names when calling someone.
So, it's about using words thatyou can say to yourself and call out to others.
When calling out to someone, children learn that they need to use terms like 'Mom' or 'Dad.'
I also call out to others as 'Mom.'
In such cases, mothers should say things like, 'You should call her grandma.'
It's okay if you still can't say it.
As you do this, you'll gradually start to remember, and one day you'll be able to say it.
I think saying "Hello" is also a good option. Let me teach you some words to engage in conversation.
……………………………………………………………………………………………………….
Advisor: Yoshiko Uchida (Child Psychology Counselor)
Since 1973, I have been providing consultation services at several public health centers in Tokyo. Since 1998, I have been running the "Children's Consultation Room: Momo's Room," where I hold group counseling sessions for issues such as school refusal, delinquency, and social withdrawal. I have also served as a part-time lecturer at Rikkyo University and as an advisor for NHK Radio's telephone consultation program, "Children's Heart Consultation." I have given numerous lectures at parenting circles across the country, as well as at meetings for parents considering school refusal and at kindergartens. My published works include 'Counselor Ryoko's Parenting Mysteries,' 'Q&A on Young Children's Lives and Hearts,' and 'Reluctance to Attend School.'